Sunday Musings…
It’s kind of hard to believe that it’s already Sunday! Where do these weekends go? Saturday, I spent the day trying to catch up on my cleaning. I needed to polish and clean all the glass in my living room area. I took up an old area rug and chucked it out, got rid of the pesky one fish I had left in the fish tank. Vacuumed and dusted everything in site.
This morning, I took apart the fish tank & gained some more room in the living room! I am very happy about this as I like lots of living space. Not much else to do today because it is off & on cloudy/rainy/sunny. So I have pretty much been inside all day & have been watching movies. I really need to get into the closet and organize it though. I just have been putting it off because it’s not something I want to tackle.
The New Look…
Yesterday, I was even able to re do my other blog - The Blog Searcher
I was just in the mood for change, so I thought why not re do the blog to give it a more updated look. I am not 100% done with it yet, but so far it’s looking pretty ok. Go check it out if you are interested. I have become quite restless it seems and I want to be changing everything again. Was even thinking of changing the look of Simple Mindz. Not sure yet though. Maybe I will just change the sidebars around but keep the same theme.
Joining the ranks…
In case you all have not noticed, I have become an affiliate of the “Date a Cougar” site.
Why the heck have you done that, you are probably asking? Well, it’s because I get TONS of hits for people looking to date older women. It’s amazing how many searches are done with “younger guy, older women, “dating older women,” etc… in my stats.
So I figured, I might as well add some links here, jump on the bandwagon and make more cash. It’s just a dating site, so maybe I can give people what they are looking for.
Sheesh, I added it yesterday and have already had 4 hits on my links. And, when people upgrade to the paid members area I will be getting $35.00. Can’t say that’s all too bad huh?
Immature people…
Am not too sure with that title. I am just annoyed with people in general this week. I put my heart into things and it seems only to be kicked when I am down. Maybe it’s my own fault. Actually, I know it’s my own fault. I keep allowing the wrong people into my life. I have tried to do a lot of “inner self” searching this week. And I cannot help but think I am the one that causes my own heartache.
I think I am just too nice sometimes. Too trusting when I should not be. I put up with shit for so long. Years even, and for what? Stomach ulcers, low self esteem, anxiety, That’s what.
I can tell you one thing though. It’s time to delete the nasty people on my Myspace account. The ones that leave nasty little comments directed towards me? Screw that. No more. I do not need the stress in my life. I am trying to improve my life, not take another step back. So, I say, “buhbye” to people that do not treat me as I should be treated.
Seriously. I just want to be treated with respect. That seems to much to be asking for though, cause I am constantly being walked over. Not anymore though. I am just very tired of being hurt. Time to take a stand.
Ok…I am done ranting….. For now anyways. 
June 24th, 2008 at 12:55 am
Just bloghopping! ;o)
abelle | Only in Silences last blog post..The Waiting
Abelle, That’s fine! Enjoy!!
June 24th, 2008 at 1:34 pm
Seriously… why do people even bother exerting energy on leaving nasty comments? I mean, are they that miserable in their life that they can only be happy by making others unhappy as well.
Well.. forget them SM! You make yourself happy and cleanse your world by dumping them. Good for you! Nobody needs a constant source of negative energy in their life.
In with the good… out with the bad!!!!
w00t!
Cinnkittys last blog post..Wake me up before you go…go…
Cinn, Thanks hun. That comment , (which I marked as spam and reported) was from either him, or one of his friends/family members.
It does not bother me because I just save all the comments, as proof of harassment.
I think, for the most part - most of my negative stuff in my life has taken the back burner.
It is summer! Gotta have fun!!
June 25th, 2008 at 4:59 pm
Found you through Spark People when I was doing a “find a buddy” search near Davis Square. No luck on finding a buddy, but I found your site!
I really like your blog and rantifications. And I’m in agreement with you about nasty people. Why in the world would anyone want to surround themselves with negative minded demeaning people whether online or in person? That’s like saying “here take this long bamboo stick and beat me with it, would you please”?!
You’re on your way to bigger and better when you do not allow them access to you and your wonderfulness. It allows you to redirect your energies toward people who will inspire you. After all, we are the average of the 5 people we spend the most time with, whether online or in person.
I wish you the very best. And thanks for blogging!
The Pink Coyote, Thank you very much. Add me as a friend at SparkPeople! Would love to have you on my buddy list!
July 9th, 2008 at 5:48 pm
I think the same thing each and every Sunday - where did my weekend go?! It never seems long enough. At times I wish my work would go to 4 10s but then I start to wonder if I really want to be at work for 10 hours a day. Probably not.
Catherines last blog post..Baby Einstein Contest
Cath, That’s funny…I was just thinking the same thing the other day. My only prob is that most therapists are not there after 5pm.